How Parents Ought To Interact With Their Bilingual Children?

Raising a bilingual child can be challenging, but it is essential to educate others about the decision and stand your ground based on what’s best for your child. Pediatricians advise non-English-speaking parents to read aloud, sing, tell stories, and speak with their children in their native language. However, there is still a common belief that starting at birth with each parent is the best guarantee of raising truly bilingual children.

Family members, schools, and prior parental experiences influence parents’ decisions to raise bilingual children. Parents prefer English-only school classes and teach Spanish at home. Research suggests that raising a bilingual child in a bilingual environment can enhance attention and executive functioning. Parents should recognize that everyday activities like mealtimes, getting dressed, bath time, and playtime provide opportunities for talking, teaching, and providing quality language exposure.

Regarding the misconception that bi-lingualism results in “bigger, better brains”, parents can expect their bilingual children to gain more realistically. This article will outline how to craft a solid strategy for raising a bilingual child and the advantages of being bilingual. Supporting families and communities is essential for ensuring positive language outcomes in bilingual children.

Some parents choose to stop their child midsentence and ask them to express themselves in the “correct” language. Both parents speak their own languages at all times, even to each other, which maximizes the children’s exposure to both languages. It is important to find the time to talk a lot, do reading, and find resources to help your children learn the language. An initially monolingual parent will eventually become bilingual for the sake of their bilingual child.

In environments where multiple languages coexist, having a clear and thoughtful plan ensures that each language is used effectively. If your bilingual child has been diagnosed with a language or speech delay, raising them in two languages will not harm them. As a bilingual parent, never talk to them in other languages but yours and form a healthy habit speaking with them in one language.


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Do children with bilingual parents take longer to talk?

Bilingual children may experience language delays or academic issues, but research shows that multilingualism offers numerous benefits, such as improved communication and connection with diverse people. Understanding speech and language development in multilingual children is crucial, and teaching a new language can be beneficial. To determine if your child needs help with speech and language, take a quiz to assess their language needs.

How do parents support their bilingual children’s language acquisition?

The myth that parents should stop using their first language when a child begins speaking a second language like English is not true. The best way for families to support bilingual children is to maintain their first language at home. Parents should use the language they can best use and are comfortable speaking, providing models of grammatically correct sentences and access to a wide vocabulary. Parents should continue using their first language to talk about everyday activities, share poems, stories, songs, books, and games, and use the name of the language when speaking to their child. Factors affecting the rate of English as a second language acquisition include cultural, social, and economic factors.

What is bilingual parenting?

Bilingualism is a common issue among children due to the necessity of learning a local language for school and to communicate with their parents in one language. However, raising a bilingual child can be challenging if the parent doesn’t have a connection to the culture where the language is spoken. Regular opportunities to use a language are necessary for learning, but creating these opportunities can be difficult without a connection to the culture. Despite the potential confusion, children can still learn multiple languages if they are around multiple cultures. Therefore, bilingualism is not a problem for children.

How do you deal with a bilingual child?
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How do you deal with a bilingual child?

Raising bilingual kids can be a rewarding experience, with numerous benefits including improved attention span, multi-tasking abilities, and reduced risk of dementia and Alzheimer’s disease in older age. Aussie mom Chontelle Bonfiglio, creator of Bilingual Kidspot, suggests several key practices to foster a bilingual household. One of the most effective ways is to stock up on bilingual books, especially those in the minority language, and let your child choose new books regularly to motivate them.

One person, one language (OPOL) is a popular method for raising bilingual children, where each person speaks to the child in the same language consistently and does not speak the other language to avoid confusion. However, don’t let the fear of not speaking the language perfectly yourself stop you from using this method. Just speak it as well as you can, and you and your child can learn and improve together. This method works especially well for families that already speak more than one language.

In summary, raising bilingual kids requires a combination of various strategies, including adding more books to the library, reading aloud to your child, playing music and singing songs, cooking together, traveling to minority language-speaking areas, offering screen-time in the language, and finding a caregiver who speaks the language.

How to raise a child when parents speak different languages?

Teaching a child a language can be a rewarding experience, especially for parents with different native languages. The OPOL method, which focuses on one person, one language, can be beneficial for parents with different languages. By making learning two or more languages fun, parents can help their children develop cognitive skills, memory, concentration, and problem-solving abilities. Additionally, children who learn more than one language can improve communication and career opportunities in the global market. By speaking to your child in their mother tongue at home, you can create a comfortable environment for them to learn and grow.

What should parents do if their children resist to be bilingual?
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What should parents do if their children resist to be bilingual?

Babara Abdelilah-Bauer, a linguist and social psychologist, suggests that children often refuse to speak their second language due to the desire to be different from their friends at school. To encourage children to speak their second language, parents can consider various solutions. One possible solution is enrolling them in a bilingual school, which allows them to be educated in two languages simultaneously. However, this may not be feasible for many parents depending on their location and educational options.

Other ways to encourage children to speak their second language include having someone outside the family come to their home, hiring a babysitter who speaks the second language, or taking them to the home country of the parent who speaks the minority language to help them absorb the local language and culture. For example, a Franco-Austrian family in France had a German-speaking babysitter who helped their children become proud of speaking another language.

Family trips are also essential for children to learn about their second language. One mother found that her daughter would speak Spanish when she was surrounded by French speakers, leading to her regular travels to Spain, where she regularly spoke Spanish. Another option is finding playgroups in your native language to meet children who speak their second language. If you cannot find one, you can set up one yourself.

The most important thing is to keep a child exposed to the second language as much as possible. Keep talking to your child in your language but never force them to speak it. It is crucial not to insist on it, as it should not become a source of conflict for the child.

If you are a frustrated parent dealing with a child who refuses to speak in your language, don’t despair. There are many ways to get around the problem, and in the end, your child should eventually become a true bilingual or multilingual individual.

How do you raise a truly bilingual child?
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How do you raise a truly bilingual child?

The benefits of learning foreign languages have led parents worldwide to seek ways to raise bilingual children. However, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to raising bilingual children. Five popular methods include One Parent, One Language (OPOL), Minority Language at Home (ML@H), Moving to another country, Language immersion programs, and Language classes at home and abroad.

OPOL is a popular choice for families where each parent is fluent in a different language. OPOL-practicing parents speak only their native language to their children, whether at home or when out and about. This approach can be particularly beneficial when the family lives in a country whose mother tongue is one of their languages, such as Spain. To combat this, parents must allow their children enough practice in the minority language, such as French, which is considered the minority language.

ML@H is another option for families where both parents are comfortable in one of their combined two or more native languages. For example, an Italian mother raising her children in Sydney with her Australian husband who also speaks Italian, the entire family uses Italian at home but English when outside. This approach avoids the sensation of “excluding” others from interacting with their family while out in the community and provides a clear framework for the kids.

However, the parent who agrees to use their non-native language while at home may struggle with feeling that they are not interacting as naturally with their children as they would in their mother tongue.

How to support bilingual students?
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How to support bilingual students?

Emergent Bilinguals (EBs) are individuals who have acquired valuable language skills and knowledge, which are essential for developing strong comprehension skills. To foster student confidence, create a sense of belonging, and help EBs excel in school and beyond, they should embrace their heritage language, adjust instruction to meet their needs, offer opportunities for speaking practice, create opportunities for listening comprehension practice, encourage class discussions, embrace accents, and leverage technology.

Teaching English-learning students to speak and comprehend oral English is a critical component of learning how to read and comprehend written English. Understanding the meaning of words is crucial for effective word recognition and reading comprehension.

How do you support children who are second language learners?
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How do you support children who are second language learners?

As schools return after summer break, early educators should create a space that supports the learning and development of young dual language learners (DLLs). This includes designing play-based projects that focus on language interactions, using explicit vocabulary instruction, supporting children’s language learning through repetition and modeling, and supplementing spoken words with gestures, visual aids, and props.

Early childhood learning environments are crucial for developing foundational school readiness skills, including language, early literacy, mathematics, executive functioning, and social-emotional skills. Strategies from Teaching Dual Language Learners by Lisa López, Ph. D. and Mariela Páez, Ed. D., can help teach these critical skills to all kids in a culturally and linguistically diverse classroom.

In addition to teaching English, early childhood programs should introduce school readiness skills in the child’s home language, as many of the underlying skills children need are uniform across different languages, and learning them in one language will boost the development of the other.

How do you raise a bilingual child in a home?
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How do you raise a bilingual child in a home?

Raising multilingual or bilingual children involves engaging in activities that promote language use. This can include reading and telling stories in your heritage language, playing games in your heritage language, singing songs, dancing, and playing music in your heritage language. If you, your partner, or others who help raise your child speak languages other than English, you may want your child to grow up hearing and using these languages. Raising multilingual or bilingual children can improve communication, cultural identity, and literacy skills.

The way you help your child learn more than one language depends on where and how often your child can hear and use the language. For example, your child might hear and use the language frequently at home with a parent, partner, family member, or friend, or only in certain situations, like at a grandparent’s home.

How to support dual language learners at home?
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How to support dual language learners at home?

The regular reading or listening to of books in the native language can facilitate the expansion of a student’s vocabulary. This is achieved by the introduction of new words, the identification and naming of objects, and the improvement of pronunciation. Furthermore, this practice can also promote the proficiency of the first language.


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Rae Fairbanks Mosher

I’m a mother, teacher, and writer who has found immense joy in the journey of motherhood. Through my blog, I share my experiences, lessons, and reflections on balancing life as a parent and a professional. My passion for teaching extends beyond the classroom as I write about the challenges and blessings of raising children. Join me as I explore the beautiful chaos of motherhood and share insights that inspire and uplift.

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  • I’m an English speaker currently learning Spanish. My bf’s first language is Spanish but living here in the US has really weakened his Spanish speaking. We’re currently living with his parents who speak majority in Spanish. We’re expecting our first baby end of September and I have made a big deal out of making sure our baby knows both languages!

  • My friends and I just got on with it and brought up our children with both languages 40 years ago. There wasn’t much advice about in those days so we winged it. In fact, we were just emerging from the theory that using more than one language from the start would “confuse” and “damage” the child, so everyone in the same position was experimenting or just getting on unscientifically. We must have got something right because they are now bringing up their own children bilingually. Over 50% of the world’s population is bilingual without any effort or theoreticising on the parents’ part. It’s the norm in large parts of the world. No need to overthink it.

  • Wow! Thank you so much for your articles! Me and hubby are learning a lot and good to know what to expect and try to be prepared for raising our child with multiple languages. I did have a question and hope to hear what you think. For background, we are in the US and am planning to speak to our baby in my native language, Tagalog (Philippines), which will be the minority language. Me and my parents and brother will be her main source of Tagalog as we don’t really have a lot of other resources in that language. I just thought about me singing in general. I have not been singing songs in my language and I only sing songs in english. I love just singing in general everyday and we also have praise in church. Will you recommend i refrain from singing in english to her or around her?

  • I’d love a article with tips for raising a multilingual child in a single parent family (either because you are a 100% solo parent or the other parent is away for long periods of time). I will be raising my children as a single parent and want to be able to teach them my first language of Sign Language, but also English as it will be the primary social language and French as it is my family’s language. They will get English through child care, but I don’t know how to teach them both French and Sign without confusing them but also giving them enough exposure (my family does not live nearby so will only be able to speak to them in person a handful of times a year).

  • I am Slovakian but living in Spain. I speak to my kid Slovak and his mother Spanish as we should. However, I speak to my son sometimes Spanish when we are outside around other Spanish…intuitively this seems the best approach, also when I teach him words sometimes I mention the Spanish version but 95% of time it’s pure Slovak…could you please confirm that this is in fact ok

  • I wonder how dangerous it is that the child can not tell the different languages apart and gets really confused if the parents are not consistent in their language use… We don’t aim at both languages to be perfect, but that he gets the basics in the minority language urdu at least. And it’s hard for my husband, who is the native speaker in that language, to keep talking urdu to our 3 month old son …he keeps falling back into german. I am also learning urdu… So sometimes we talk in urdu, sometimes german. It’s hard to stick to rules like speaking urdu at home or something… I am really worried that in the end, our son won’t even be able to tell the languages apart… Any experience or advice concerning our struggles?

  • As someone who grew up bilingual, I don’t agree with this- language is a very personal expression of the soul. It hurt me very deeply when my mom wouldn’t speak German with me because she thought it would tarnish my English, but German was my mother’s language, that’s why I wanted to speak it with her. So, when she wanted to stop speaking it with me because she thought English development was more important, that really hurt our relationship & our communication – then, I only had my grandparents to speak with when they would visit or when I would insist my Mom speak with me, because I didn’t want to lose my maternal language living in America – language is very connecting to culture & spiritual wellbeing, so a child should not be deprived of the language they feel connected to, just because their parent wants them to learn a certain one.

  • Hi Andrea, thank you for you articles. I’m wondering what’s your opinion on our situation. We have 4 languages in our family and our daughter is almost 2 years old. My strongest languages are Bosnian and English, and I’m also fluent in Swedish. My husband’s strongest languages are English and Arabic. Our daughter goes to preschool for 6.5 hours a day where her teachers are all native Swedish speakers. I have mostly been speaking Bosnian to her when we are alone and when the three of us are together we speak English. My husband has also been speaking English to her because he’s afraid that introducing Arabic will be too much for her, as he wants English and Swedish to be her strongest languages. He feels that I speak too much Bosnian to her so he feels like there’s no space for Arabic. Every night I choose a different language to read books for her. She also interacts with my mom in Bosnian (video and irl) and my husband’s side of the family speak Arabic to her but only via article chats, since they live far away. My questions are if 6.5 hours at a Swedish daycare are enough for her to learn the language well enough? Do you think I should speak 80% English to her and then maybe read books in Bosnian and Swedish for the remaining 20%, so that her dad can focus on Arabic? Any other spontaneous thoughts about our situation? Thanks in advance 🙂

  • Hi Andrea, I have watched a few of your articles looking for support and I am really glad I found you because I now have at least a starting point. But I still have one question the answer to which I might have missed: I am from Spain, my mother tongue is Catalan (one of the 4 languages spoken in Spain) and my learned at school, tv (…) language is Spanish. My husband was born in the US to Portuguese speaking parents and went to Portuguese school in the US. We live in the US and even though we constantly switch languages because we understand each other’s languages perfectly, our main relationship language that we speak to each other 90% of the time, is English. My plan would be to: 1. I will speak to our child in Catalan using OPOL. 2. I will use Spanish in specific situations (games, books, songs, playdates and other external support), using a visual item like a hat. 3. My husband and his parents will speak to the kid in Portuguese using OPOL. 4. MY QUESTION: What language should me and my husband use when we speak to each other and to the kid or the kid is around?

  • Hi, I found this article a bit confusing and discouraging. I am a stay at home homeschool mom. My daughter will be 5 in August. I have been speaking English, French, Serbian and Spanish with her (Spanish least of all). English is the majority language and the language her dad and I speak to her in mostly. Serbian is my parents’ language (I’m very good at it but was born here so English is my strongest language). She understands it very well and can speak back but needs some help. My French is very strong (I did all my education in French) so I’m trying really hard to develop it. Im even wondering whether to start homeschooling in that language. We live in the French province of Canada but hear mostly English still. She understands French well but again struggles to speak. She says it in English and I say it in French and have her repeat back. Spanish is on the back burner. My Spanish is also very good. I spent a lot of time in Spanish speaking countries and did some education in Argentina. My question is how to do this so she can get the benefit of all my languages when I am the only one teaching them to her. I am confused and discouraged and you keep repeating that planning is needed or it can be more harmful than good. Can you give me any tips or recommend any excellent resources (books etc?). We are a one salary family so we are cost conscious too.

  • I like your idea of using audiobooks, but at what age do you find appropriate in bringing technology into their lives? My partner doesn’t want to rush screens at all, but I like the idea of using them for help with the second language and article with family abroad (not for games, easing tantrums, or keeping them occupied). Any advice?

  • I’m glad that i found u before I decide in which language i need to go with my child.. but he’s almost 3years now n as we live in italy they speak italian.. @ home we talk in English n native language (sri lankan) my child speaks English as well & bit of italian.. im worried, if he couldn’t catch italian because of my fault 😢 now he’s mixing both languages when he talks bt i think he knows the difference between the language bcouse if i ask something in italian he responds in italian language.. bt it will be okay in the future or im doing it wrong?? Im really worried.. help please!!!! Thank u!!!!! ❤

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