Do Karate Lessons Contribute Toward The Required Court-Ordered Child Support?

The 2017 Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) amended § 162 (f) to allow deductions for payments made through court orders or settlement agreements with government entities. However, a receipt for cash paid for child care is not sufficient proof to get reimbursed if it is court ordered through family court. The IRS requires that expenses are deductible for the care of a qualifying person only if their main purpose is the person’s well-being and protection.

Day camps can qualify for a tax write-off if they provide childcare during the day while parents are at work or looking for work. Shared expenses in child custody refer to any child-raising costs that co-parents share. The child and dependent care credit (CDCC) is a tax credit for parents or caregivers to help cover the cost of qualified care expenses for a child under 13.

Martial arts cannot be claimed on taxes for a child or an adult as it is classified as a hobby by the I.R.S. Martial arts can only be claimed as a childcare. The cost of recreational activities for dependents is not a legitimate deduction.

Taekwondo tuition fees are not eligible child care expenses, as they are not considered “child care” and licensing would not be required. Only the fee paid for instruction at the camp qualifies. A martial arts club may have rules stating that parents cannot stay during class, but this does not make sense.

In summary, the 2017 TCJA allows deductions for payments made through court orders and settlement agreements, but it is important to note that a receipt for cash paid for child care is not sufficient proof to get reimbursed.


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What do you call a female sensei?

The Japanese expression “sensei” shares the same characters as the Chinese word “xiānshēng”, which was a courtesy title for a man of respected stature. In Standard Chinese, it is used similarly to the title “Mr”. Before the modern vernacular, xiānshēng was used to address teachers of both genders. However, it has fallen out of usage in Standard Chinese, but is retained in some southern Chinese Chinese varieties like Cantonese, Hokkien, Wu, Teochew, and Hakka.

In Japanese, sensei is still used to address people of both genders, likely reflecting its Middle Chinese etymology. In Hokkien and Teochew communities in Singapore and Malaysia, “Sensei” is the proper word to address school teachers. In Sanbo Kyodan related zen schools, sensei is used to refer to ordained teachers below the rank of rōshi. Other schools of Buddhism in Japan use the term for any priest regardless of seniority, such as Jōdo Shinshū ministers in the United States. In the Kwan Um School of Zen, the Korean title “ji do poep sa nim” is similar to the Japanese title “sensei”.

How do you say hello in karate?

The term “Kihon,” which translates to “fundamentals,” is used in karate to describe the basic techniques, including punches, kicks, blocks, and other maneuvers. “Kyotsuke,” which translates to “standing up,” signifies the impact of these techniques.

Is karate more aggressive than taekwondo?

Taekwondo is a more aggressive martial art suitable for adults interested in competition or self-defense, emphasizing kicks. Karate, on the other hand, is more subdued and focuses on punches and hand strikes. Both martial arts offer various benefits for self-defense, with Karate focusing on striking techniques and Taekwondo focusing on kicks. Both styles also incorporate blocks, punches, and throws into their systems. It’s up to personal preference to decide which martial art is better for adults. Both martial arts are great options for fitness and self-defense training.

What is the hardest type of karate?

Karate has evolved over time, with some styles blending techniques from the four main branches and others incorporating techniques from other martial arts. For example, Kyokushin, a hard style derived from Shotokan and Gōjū-ryū, emphasizes breaking and full contact, knockdown sparring as a main training method. Other martial arts include boxing, hybrid martial arts, Chinese martial arts, wrestling, and comparison of kobudō styles. Karate kata, performed by style, is also a significant aspect of the martial arts. The history of karate can be traced back to Shotokan, which is considered the secret to its fighting origins.

What category does karate fall under?

Karate, a Japanese martial art, has a long history and is characterized by open hand combat. It has a ranking system that indicates the skill level of its wearer, with black belts being the highest possible rank. Practitioners wear a “dogi” or “gi” as their uniform or exercise outfit, and an “obi” or karate belt, which holds this “gi” together. These belts come in different colors, representing the skill levels of the practitioner. This article explores the different grading systems and the black belt, providing a deeper understanding of the ranking system in karate.

What is a karate student called?

The formal karate titles include Seito Deshi, Uchi Deshi, and Kohai. The term “Seito Deshi” is used to describe an individual engaged in the study of a martial art, whether as a student, pupil, or disciple. A Uchi Deshi is a personal student who engages in training under the guidance of a Master within a given system. The term “kohai” is used to refer to an individual who is of a lower rank than oneself. This is the antithesis of the term “sempai,” which is used to describe an individual who is of a higher rank.

Is karate for Defence or Offence?

Karate, a martial art originating in Okinawa, Japan, is a defensive art that focuses on striking techniques like punches, kicks, knee strikes, and elbow strikes, as well as blocking and evasive maneuvers. Despite its origins and sensei teachings, Karate is often deemed defensive. Gichin Funakoshi, the founder of Shotokan Karate, emphasizes the importance of balance and harmony in martial arts practice, highlighting the importance of self-defense in his philosophy and principles.

What is the hardest martial art?

Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is a martial art that demands both physical and mental intensity. It requires developing physical strength and mental focus to execute techniques effectively. The sport requires the use of power and endurance simultaneously, which can be physically taxing but also improves overall fitness. Mental focus is crucial as one must anticipate opponents’ moves, strategize, remain calm under pressure, analyze strengths and weaknesses, and react quickly and decisively. This combination of physical and mental intensity creates a challenging yet rewarding learning experience.

What is not allowed in karate?

In sport karate, illegal techniques include head butts, hair pulls, bites, scratches, elbows, knees, eye attacks, takedowns on hard surfaces, ground fighting, stomps or kicks to the head of a downed competitor, slapping, grabbing for more than one second, uncontrolled blind techniques, throws, takedowns, sweeps, and other dangerous techniques. Competitors can only grab the uniform top of their opponent for one second to score, and uniform pants for one second to an upright opponent.

What is better for kids, taekwondo or karate?
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What is better for kids, taekwondo or karate?

Focus Martial Arts Brisbane offers self-defense classes for kids that combine the best elements of various martial arts. Taekwondo is known for its kicks, while Karate focuses on striking and close-in defense. Judo involves throwing moves and is great for take-downs. Hapkido has wrist locks and holds, and BJJ is dominant for grappling and ground work.

Focus Martial Arts Brisbane provides a comprehensive curriculum that includes the kicks of taekwondo, the sturdy hands of karate and boxing, Muay Thai leg kicks and knees, Hapkido wrist locks, judo take-downs, and BJJ ground game. This combination aims to enable a smaller person to confidently defend themselves against a bigger and stronger opponent in any situation.

Focus Martial Arts Brisbane makes it easy for parents to choose the best martial art style for their child, ensuring they learn all the best parts of each martial art variety in their studio. This approach ensures that children can confidently defend themselves against a bigger and stronger opponent in any situation.

What is karate classed as?
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What is karate classed as?

Karate is an unarmed martial-arts discipline that focuses on kicking, striking, and defensive blocking with arms and legs. It emphasizes concentrating the body’s power at the point of impact, using surfaces like the hands, ball of the foot, heel, forearm, knee, and elbow. Training involves blows and kicks stopped short, preferably within an inch of contact. Sporting karate and sparring (kumite) typically last about three minutes, with a decision made if neither contestant scores a clean “killing” point.

Karate evolved in East Asia over centuries, becoming systematized in Okinawa in the 17th century. It was imported into Japan in the 1920s and developed into several schools and systems. Karate, like other Asian martial-arts disciplines, stresses mental attitude, rituals of courtesy, costumes, and a complex ranking system by belt color. There is some overlap of technique with other fighting styles.


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Do Karate Lessons Contribute Toward The Required Court-Ordered Child Support?
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  • It’s not selfish… it’s ANTAGONISTIC at any cost. “Antagonism” is the word that unfortunately ends up characterizing all interactions with high-conflict coparents. Thank you for this article. It’s very helpful to understand the need to not “look cheap” can become a functional nightmare. It’s very important to adopt a narrative that doesn’t serve an image, or soothe feelings of guilt or undue responsibility, but rather serves function.

  • Yes! You nailed it with this one in regards to abusers and expenses. I agree with all of this, and you made very good, and detailed advice. My disordered ex is acting out that he was ordered to pay child support last year. Even though he is far more wealthy than I am, the order was pretty much set for us to split things evenly. He was just angry that there was an order against his will. He did everything you mentioned to retaliate. Created chaos while I was at work to get me in trouble; took my daughter to excessive dr appointments out of network- one was to see his plastic surgeon for cosmetic laser treatments for scars. Kids dont need that!; he called cps and claimed I was a drug addict; when that didnt work, he hired a sociopath attorney to bring me back to court. His attorney has filed excessive motions for third parties at my expense, and our judge is a newbie like you mentioned and naive about it all. In my county, they allow you to look up minute entries from court cases, so I’ll look up different hearings to see what the attorneys filed, and what my judge ruled. It seems like some high conflict cases fight so much about money, that the parties dont even have privacy. I see all of these motions to check credit scores, to get documents from banks, employers, babysitters; I’ll even see my wealthy friend’s own attorneys file liens against their assets to attorney fees just to continually go to court for everyday expenses. If the abuser doesn’t punish you with excessive expenses, they will use the court system to violate your privacy and impede on your life.

  • I’m now dealing with the other parent not agreeing to any extra curricular activity. It is in our order to only have one per season and that no party shall deny involvement for personal gain. I’m going to show that Ive given multiple options but all he agreed to is two day camps that are always on my day. Hope the courts see this game he is playing.

  • My ex just took me to court for daycare costs. Temp orders stated his agreement to carry the cost but was left out in the permanent orders. I have had no need for care while he went through 3 different “providers” to now claiming his girlfriend is the “nanny” and I should be paying half that cost (never discussed or provided any information for child care prior to filing motions). I made it clear that I didn’t need care and if I did I would/am more than willing to pay the cost just as he should for his needs. Judge agreed with me thank goodness!

  • I lost custody to the abuser and not only does the abuser get my kids Social Security disability benefit but I also have to pay $400 a month making it 1072 per month. However she is ordered to pay for all extracurricular activities. The issue I have is that she overbooked our kids and only on my days so I’m running every which way and our kids are eight and 10 and I am ordered to bring them to their activities that she signs them up for. I’m a single mom and my ex is remarried with the person she cheated on me with. I have not learned how to bi- locate yet so there have been a few things I haven’t been able to get to because I insist on being with my kids for the minimal time I have and I don’t know enough people that can help out On weekends. She has my son who is 10 and a travel basketball league and we are having to go hours to his games which is crazy gas money, food and I can’t afford lodging. Also there are game fees which she should pay but isn’t. I keep getting threats of content even though I am an incredibly involved mom and I am their biggest fan. It’s an impossible situation. She finds things purposely that she can schedule them for to try to split us up and take up all my time with them when we could be spending quality time together at home or an activity of my choosing. She thinks I’m her slave now and is such a bully.

  • what about the reverse ie the ex won’t take the child to anything Ive paid for ( that the ex won’t contribute to ie its only out of my pocket).it’s in the orders ( which were ‘agreed to’ by the way) that my son do music, tennis and dance. since agreeing the ex 1. won’t take him and is beligerant at me about it but also comes up with excuses… ‘it’s too far away’, ‘he doesn’t want to go’ and other BS. 2. rejects all requests for reimbursement (the latest rejection was ‘im not paying anything from a document you send me i want the supplier to give it to me) 3. my son misses out bc my ex won’t take him, my son only gets to go once a fortnight and each time he goes back he’s nervous about interacting with the other kids bc they’ve formed bonds, he feels uncomfortable bc everyone knows stuff he doesn’t etc… bottom line my ex cannot be bothered taking him so my ex tries to justify via deflection etc

  • Yep, during a child support preceding the narcissistic ex wanted to put the child living with her in a 20K per year private school while the son living with us (in a modest LA apartment) was 8n the second worst middle school in the state of California. This is because she wanted to offset the $200+ child support she owed us for my stepson by upping educational costs on hers for the other child.

  • I put in the temporary orders that we will split expenses for something if it’s agreed to first because I knew the ex would try to drag me on this very topic and he has but it’s due to him insisting I pay half for something our child was enrolled into before the agreement was in place. I let him know that I would help to pay when I could but cannot afford half the amount. Luckily for me he doesn’t understand the legal system and isn’t trying to claim a contempt of a court order. While I don’t think he would win his case it would be another waste of time. My goal is to pay for stuff myself and reduce my communications with the ex

  • I have mixed opinions on this topic. I separated from my ex when my son was 6 months old, daycare was a huge expense for me and and the end was calculated into child support. my ex fought for my son to stay home with his mother rather than paying for childcare, however this would have put my son in a toxic household as well as create an exchange daily. Our order doesn’t clarify what will happen when my son gets older and will require before and after school care, summer camps Etc. my ex will also rely on these services, so hopefully we can get it calculated into child support. Medical bills have also been an issue, X refusing to pay small portions like $35 here and there. I just reviewed my order and noticed that he cannot claim our son on his taxes for 2018 if he owes any medical expenses 🙂 that would include the small expenses he will not pay me because I choose to take my son to an out-of-network pediatric dentist, in-network does not cover pediatric dentistry and my son just turned 3. Appears reasonable to me.

  • I currently have temporary full custody, but when I get permanent full custody I’m requesting that me and my ex should split our daughter medical expenses 50/50 on the deductibles and co insurance bill (because she’s under my insurance) and extracurricular activities 60/40 without her paying child support. Is this a good idea? And is there anything I’m forgetting to add? Thanks..You’re article are always informative.

  • This is terrible… This could have cause this baby permanent trauma… Strong child and strong mother! I might have busted the window out to get my child but she remained very calm and poised so as not to stress her child more… Bravo mama ❤️ and thank you to the police for their help in rescuing her 🥰 shame on the daycare workers! They should have been charged with reckless endangerment of a child

  • My guess is the staff didn’t do it deliberately but didn’t follow procedure. That they either didn’t have a student roll or didn’t check the student roll to see who was there that day and who had been picked up yet or not. Since they didn’t/couldn’t check, they probably didn’t notice the girl was still there and locked her in as they left for the day.

  • Kindercare does have a lot of bad reviews these days… I went to Kindercare in West York, PA from ages 2-5 and I liked it because I learned and played there, but the not so patient staff didn’t always know how to handle me and they did tie my shoes together to get me to hold still. Leaving a 2-year-old locked in the building by herself is worth sending them to jail for!

  • Unbelievable… that child care worker needs to be fired. You don’t leave a Two year old alone in a Day care unsupervised, scared and alone. The mother should report the incident to the child care authorities. That child care worker should also rethink her career choices. She is not fit to work in a Day Care centre.

  • The fact that the little girl is Black/biracial makes this even more suspicious and disrespectful! Always taking digs and getting one over and now this. The parents should definitely follow this and enroll her with a different daycare program and get some type of resolution because this is maddening!

  • 15 minutes is what gets me. If it was a couple of hours, where the daycare/nursary (I live in the UK) teacher somehow couldnt see the child, maybe hiding/sleeping in a pile of toys somewhere, assuming they had gone home or maybe due to some heat of the moment situation that caused the teacher to forget about things, lock up and rush home themselves. 15 minutes is straight up incompetence. I have never seen my local nursery close up until after the nearby Primary school closed up, and even then the Janitor would come in. Even if the mother was 3 hours late it would be impossible to forget the child.

  • PROPER TRAINED?? THAT IS UNACCEPTABLE. WHO EVER THE LAST PERSON LOCK THAT DAY CARE SHOULD BE ACCOUNTABLE TO HE OR HER ACTION. AND SHOULD NOT BE IN CARE OF ANY CHILDREN. AND FOR THE OWNER OF THAT DAY CARE, LICENSE SHOULD BE REVOKE, FOR NEGLIGENCE AND SHOULD NOT BE ALOWED TO RUN A DAY CARE AT ALL, OWNERS SHOULD MONITORED EVERY INCH OF THEIR DAY CARE 24/7 FOR ANY CHILD SAFETY. ACTION SHOULD BE NEEDED NOT TO LET THIS HAPPEN TO ANY DAY CARE NATION WIDE.

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