Making The Gym A Way Of Life?

This article provides tips on how to make fitness a lifestyle, rather than a fad. It emphasizes the importance of setting realistic goals, finding your fitness passion, creating a consistent routine, prioritizing nutrition, and finding ways to make movement fit into your lifestyle. Personal trainer Elise Young emphasizes the importance of consistency in the fitness journey.

To make fitness a lifestyle, it is essential to find activities that you enjoy, be patient when reaching your physical goals, and avoid giving up on your favorite foods. Choose an exercise routine and diet that works for your lifestyle, avoid complicating workouts or overloading yourself with too much variation or commitments. Start small and work your way up, set realistic goals, and make workouts a habit.

Discipline, forming healthy habits, setting goals, and prioritization are key to success in making fitness a lifestyle choice. To create a new habit, schedule regular workouts, get physical all day long, be goal-oriented, and pay attention to your progress.

To make exercise a lifestyle choice, start by going to the gym every day and consider incorporating activities that you enjoy into your exercise routine. For example, watch TV while riding a stationary bike or chat with friends while exercising.

Incorporating physical activity into your daily routine involves more than just hitting the gym; it involves integrating physical activity seamlessly into your routine. By following these tips, you can improve your quality of life, mood, and relationships while enjoying exercise and being patient with your fitness journey.


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Is going to the gym a lifestyle?

Viewing health and fitness as a lifestyle can lead to improved behaviors in various aspects of life. It can inspire creativity, teach discipline, adaptability, and balance, and make you look and feel better. It’s more than just appearance; it’s about the quality of life, focus at work, movement ability, and psychological state. Living a healthy lifestyle is more than just physical appearance; it’s about the way you feel, your quality of life, and the people in your life that truly matter.

Is it okay to gym every day?

Working out daily is acceptable as long as it’s enjoyable and not too strict, especially during illness or injury. Consider your motivation for exercising and adjust your workout schedule accordingly. A common rule is to do 30 minutes of moderate physical activity daily, a minimum of 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week, or 75 minutes of intense exercise per week. To meet fitness, health, or weight loss goals, aim for at least 45 minutes of exercise per day, including high-intensity activity. If you find taking a day off can hinder motivation, consider a lighter or shorter workout on a rest day.

Is gym a hobby or lifestyle?

One might categorize participation in physical exercise at a gym as a hobby, akin to other leisure activities such as reading, gaming, or hiking. It is, however, recommended that the terms “bodybuilding” or “working out/exercising” be used, as they are more accurate and enjoyable to list as an activity.

Do gym goers live longer?
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Do gym goers live longer?

A study has found that adults who engage in two to four times more vigorous physical activity than the recommended amount of 150 to 299 minutes per week have a 21 to 23 lower risk of all-cause mortality, 27 to 33 lower risk of cardiovascular disease mortality, and 19 lower risk of non-cardiovascular disease mortality. The study also found that a substantially lower risk of mortality was observed among individuals with adequate levels of both long-term leisure time moderate and vigorous physical activity.

However, this was not the case for those already having high levels of moderate physical activity. The study suggests that a combination of medium to high levels of vigorous and moderate physical activity can provide the maximum mortality reduction of 35 to 42 minutes per week.

How to live a gym lifestyle?
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How to live a gym lifestyle?

To make fitness a permanent fixture in your life, create habits that become ingrained in your routine. Find exercise that you enjoy and stay consistent with your workouts. Prioritize your health, hold yourself accountable, and don’t compete with anyone but yourself. Health and fitness are more than aesthetics; it’s about the way you feel, your quality of life, your ability to move, your focus at work, and your mental state.

It’s unrealistic to be going at 100 MPH all the time in your fitness journey. Life happens, stress comes and goes, and schedules change. By practicing moderation, balance, and consistency, you allow yourself to indulge without going overboard. If you don’t have access to a gym, learn to adapt instead of self-destructing.

Developing habits and skills to live a healthy lifestyle no matter where you are helps you enjoy life without the distractions of a gym and kitchen. By following these tips, you can make fitness a permanent fixture in your life.

How to enjoy the gym?

To make exercise fun, ask others to join you, add entertainment if you find it boring, be a big kid, make exercise a game, move for a cause, and reward yourself. Exercise is good for our health, but it can be hard to get motivated. Here are six fun exercises to try: Frisbee, walking basketball, Tai chi, water aerobics, dancing, and hula hooping. Remember to be a big kid, make exercise a game, move for a cause, and reward yourself for your efforts.

How do I make my gym a habit?

Exercise is essential for maintaining good health, including heart, bones, muscles, weight, and sleep. To make exercise a habit, find something fun, convenient, and put it on your calendar. Set realistic goals and stay flexible. Regular exercise can lower the risk of heart disease, and even small amounts can be beneficial. If you haven’t exercised in a while, start slowly and gradually build up the intensity over time. This will help you stay fit and live a longer, healthier life.

How to be fit in 1 week?

This is a one-week exercise program that includes a 40-minute moderate-paced jog or walk on Monday, a 10-minute walk on Wednesday, a 30-minute bike ride or jog on Friday, a 30-minute bike ride or jog on Saturday, and a 40-minute run or walk on Sunday. Regular exercise is crucial for health, but it requires determination and discipline. Strategies can help maintain the routine and see immediate benefits on body and well-being. This article is a helpful guide for those considering starting an exercise routine.

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How do I get a gym mentality?

To cultivate a consistent exercise routine, it is essential to avoid skipping workouts, identify an enjoyable activity, set realistic goals, monitor progress, seek inspiration, and recognize the advantages of an active lifestyle.


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Rae Fairbanks Mosher

I’m a mother, teacher, and writer who has found immense joy in the journey of motherhood. Through my blog, I share my experiences, lessons, and reflections on balancing life as a parent and a professional. My passion for teaching extends beyond the classroom as I write about the challenges and blessings of raising children. Join me as I explore the beautiful chaos of motherhood and share insights that inspire and uplift.

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  • my gym priority: – make it fun – make a routine – find a super yummy protein shake – bring healthy snacks becahse gym hunger is real – dont worry about what you wear as long as ita gym approved – have a banging playlist that you only play at the gym – select a consistent time you go – start slowly (one a week during quiet time until you build it up to whatever time of day and amount in a week is realistic for you) – dont feel bad skipping it when poorly/period – dont self harm (pushing myself until im dizzy or hurting on purpose) – find a fun cool down routine – dont judge others to feel better about yourself (unless its gym safety concern)

  • 2 things helped me finally overcome gym anxiety; viewing going to gym as a workout itself, to overcome and get stronger socially, and forcing myself to consistently go to classes. My gym I went to at the time did a mix of weightlifting and cardio classes and they were amazing in slowly building my confidence and fundamental knowledge. It was so hard making myself go in at the start but it is SO worth it.

  • I just started working out again after a longer period of not working out and just after the first session I felt so much better, not because I saw any differences but because I felt better from just moving my body and feeling more confident. I try to make a plan for my gym journey and perusal your articles help me a lot, without any pressure.

  • The problem I have is I’ll make my routine and then I’ll see someone on TikTok doing something that may not be included in my routine then I just keep changing it. It’s so frustrating and causing my such anxiety. All it’s doing is preventing me from being consistent. I finally figured out my routine and I’m going to stick to it. Thank you again for such a motivating article. I find anytime I’m struggling with something you upload one of these articles and give me such clarity. You’re the real one 💛

  • I’ve been on and off of my work out journey for a couple years now but I’m finally getting back into the swing of things thanks to you and Maya Lee. You’re such an inspiration and I feel the same about you as you do about all those women you mentioned at the end. You’re awesome, Lena! Thank you, so much!

  • I’ve been on a fitness journey since 2019, and I think I’m FINALLY on the right track. I’m Lifting heavy, doing cardio to better my body not to make it tiny or punish it. I’m EATING and getting my protein goals daily. I’m having my daily greens and my husband and I have been going to the gym every day for the past week and a half just to see if we could push past that mental barrier. (Im a teacher so we have the time to do this during the summer) But Lena, you’ve been such an inspiration to me. You’re already my gym bestie and hype up girl. When I knew I was going to the gym after work during the school year, I’d watch your articles at lunch to hype myself up about going to the gym later. Thank you for everything you post. ❤

  • Can I just say I love this article! I actually want to give you a shout out because your articles are what made me want to start my journey. perusal your articles really inspired me! I started my journey in March and I just kept telling myself something you had said in one of your articles, that 21 days is a habit, 90 days is a lifestyle and I would just repeat that to myself on days I didn’t feel like going to the gym. Now if I don’t go it feels weird like I’m missing a part of my day. It’s just second nature now. Thank you for doing what you do and I love all your articles! ❤

  • Hi Lena!! I just began going to the gym a couple days ago. Today was my second time, and I was so nervous while looking for the right machines to use that I almost started to cry. I pushed myself to do a 30 minute full body exercise & got so dizzy feeling like I was gonna puke. I’m still trying to figure out my pace and limits. You posted this at the perfect time. Thank you. ♡

  • I teach aquatic exercise (Aqua Zumba mostly), and I always encourage folks to use the pool if it’s available. Not only does the pool keep you cool, safe, and inconspicuous (nobody can see what’s going on under the water), but the aquatic exercisers are the sweetest people!! When I started at the gym, I worked out with the senior citizens. They make it fun and social! Still love them!

  • Subject: Appreciation for Your Support and Inspiration in the Fitness Journey Dear Lena, I hope this letter finds you thriving and filled with the same vigor and determination you bring to every workout. Today, I want to take a moment to express my gratitude for your unwavering support and the immense inspiration you provide through your dedication to lifting and fitness. Your commitment to your fitness journey is truly admirable. Every time I see you in the gym, pushing yourself to new limits and striving for progress, I am inspired to do the same. Your consistency and determination serve as a reminder that with hard work and perseverance, anything is possible. Not only do you lead by example in the gym, but you also create a supportive and inclusive environment for others. Your willingness to offer guidance, encouragement, and a friendly smile to those around you has undoubtedly made a positive impact on our fitness community. You embody the spirit of camaraderie and support that makes our gym a welcoming place for all. Beyond your physical strength, it is your mental fortitude and positive attitude that truly set you apart. You approach every challenge with grace and determination, never allowing setbacks to deter you from your goals. Your resilience in the face of adversity serves as a constant source of inspiration for me and many others. In the journey towards self-improvement, having a role model like you makes all the difference. Your passion for lifting and fitness is contagious, and it has motivated me to push myself harder and strive for excellence in my own workouts.

  • I really needed this article! I have huge anxiety and depression and body image issues and I finally convinced myself to register in the nearby gym. Still totally TERRIFIED of going there on Monday but I know I need to do it to improve my mental health 🫠 Like you said, I need to make it a priority instead of an annoying chore.

  • Dear Lena, I hope this letter finds you well. As I sit down to express my gratitude, I am filled with a deep sense of appreciation for the invaluable collaboration and inspiration you have provided throughout our time working together. From the very beginning, your enthusiasm and dedication to our shared projects have been truly inspiring. Your creativity knows no bounds, and I have been consistently amazed by the innovative ideas you bring to the table. Whether it’s brainstorming sessions, problem-solving discussions, or simply bouncing ideas off each other, your input has always been instrumental in driving our projects forward. Beyond your creative prowess, it is your unwavering positivity and support that have truly made our collaboration a joy. Your encouragement has often been the motivation I needed to push through challenges and strive for excellence. Your willingness to listen, understand, and offer constructive feedback has been invaluable, and I am grateful for the trust and camaraderie we have built together. Working alongside you has not only enriched our projects but has also enriched my own personal and professional growth. Your perspective has broadened my horizons, and I have learned so much from our exchanges. Your passion for your work is contagious, and it has inspired me to approach every task with the same level of dedication and enthusiasm. As we continue our journey together, I am filled with excitement for the opportunities that lie ahead. I am confident that with your creativity, passion, and drive, we will achieve great things together.

  • Been struggling to get back into the gym recently, just got back from traveling back home and my grandmother has suffered from a stroke, she also had MS which makes it even harder and my aunt dies the same day. Not to sure how to feel at the moment, I usually use the gym to get over things but i just cant get up and go. Any tips?

  • I started a few months ago and my main focus was working out everyday. It didnt matter how much i did i had to show up everyday. I did see results eventually But i had my final exams coming up and it was difficult to keep up and i would just follow along to a 10 minute routine and i realized i wasnt even doing the bare minimum at that point. I workout at home as going to the gym is not affordable. Recently i moved towns and with the shifting i couldnt workout at all. I was so busy with everything. And now i feel really guilty. I havent worked out in more than a month now and I know it should be okay to take a break but i need to be consistent. Now i find it so difficult to start again i just don’t know where to begin. I wish i never stopped, if I didn’t I would’ve seen more results by now but I didnt5 and it’s so difficult to make time out of my busy schedule now but i really want to workout. The worst part is i know how much i procrastinate. I feel absolutely terrible but i cant stop. I know i have to get better. And i need to take care of myself i just dont know where to start. When i first started working out i remember doing alot of research and also just sticking to what i had to do. Okay i just needed to vent. Ill start again today for sure. Let’s hope it goes well

  • Thankyou queen for this article I started working out at home because I was always scared and insecure about going to gym but I’d give up and it’s been a couple of months and this article made me realise that I actually don’t have a full plan sometimes I wing it then when I don’t feel like it or that negative mindset comes along I always listen to it but perusal your article has made me realise that I need to get back on it again and stop listening to my negative mindset and start being kinda to myself…I wanna workout maybe yes to get fit but to also help me mentally and physically of course but finally look at myself and not be disgusted but proud of what I have started I’ve always started workouts really well but then 5-6 or even 7 months later I have completely given up 😅 but thankyou for this article and I definitely need to start a routine that works with me instead of these unrealistic expectations of myself so thankyou so much

  • I would like to add for motivation to get over gym anxiety is to have a gym buddy if you can. Starting off going to the gym with someone who is more experienced or just as new as you can really help boost your confidence or just feel more comfortable. You either have a mentor to help structure a better workout for you, or someone who is totally new helps because you are not the only new person in the gym. That’s how I started going to the gym and got comfortable enough to go on my own.

  • Love this thank you. I’m sooo inconsistent but I used to always be consistent with walking at least – now I haven’t even been consistent with that, and I’m the heaviest and biggest I’ve ever been! I’m literally in an oversized hoodie at the gym right now, and in a non peak hour (no one is here currently). I’m just trying to push through the first few weeks and hoping it will get easier!

  • to add to the routines section— it’s okay if you start out doing 2 or 3 full body days a week when you first begin. don’t sleep on full body days!! just because you’re not focusing on one body part/muscle group doesn’t mean it won’t challenge you. full body days will help you hit all the muscles you need to in less time and you will feel very accomplished by doing just those 2-3 workouts. with time, start to maybe separate those days into more muscle focused days (ex. upper/lower body, push/pull/legs). you’ll probably be more consistent with smaller, “easier” goals (even tho like i said those full body days aren’t easy).

  • Great article! I’m 2 weeks into weight lifting and 4 weeks into yoga and I agree with everything you said! I just had 2 recovery days that I used terribly might I add and I’d usually then not work out until the new year. I feel the mental shift since prioritizing exercise now! Cos my mind won’t make excuses anymore! It’s great! Love your content! Motivated me to get into the gym rn and to get consistent with YT 😂

  • I think a lot of what is stopping me is the pressure to do all of it the “right way”. I searched up this article to find the motivation again, and decided to just be active and do some random strength training with bodyweight and whatever heavy thing that was next to me while perusal this. Workout may be more efficient when structured, but some daays taking 15 minutes to do what feels natural and gets your pulse up, is just as good. After this I also feel more motivated to do a more elaborate one tomorrow. Thanks for this article ❤️

  • As a teenage girl, this il genuinely so helpful and motivating ( btw I lovr you for pointing out comparison on social media, which is kinda the case currently for me and I’m now gonna go unfollow all the accounts that make me feel bad about myself on your advice) so thank you soooo much!!!(also you’re literally gorgeous)

  • I’ve been on my fitness journey for about a month now, and I definitely haven’t gone to the gym as m6ch as I perhaps should. I have been able to consistently go at least once a week, though, which I see as an absolute win. I personally hype myself up before going by perusal “before and after” article compilations, because if all those people, many of which had a much higher starting weight (I’m losing weight for health reasons), I feel like “if they can, of course I can do that too!”. I also remind myself often that it’s a process and that I won’t reach my goals in just a few months. It might take me a year or more to reach my goal weight, and then a continous journey to build muscle and get fit and healthy long term. And that’s okay. I’m gonna try to get more gymdays in every week, though. That’s my current goal. 😅

  • Thank you for everything . I’m finally taking my health mentally and physically as important as they should be so you’re helping me a lot. I want to start filming myself daily to track my progress and maybe one day have a youtube account but I feel embarrassed everytime when I want to film myself in public. I also don’t know what time of materiel I should use. What do you reccommend? Cameras and editing stuffs.

  • I need advice. I have the motivation but I have not been able to find work in almost a year. I cannot afford the most important thing, which is food. This makes me not see the point in going. Just wasting $ on a membership & I don’t/cant get results due to groceries. (I don’t qualify for food stamps)

  • I’ve honestly learned that I need to be CONSISTENT in litterly every aspect of my life. I CANNOT wait for motivation and inspiration or whatnot. I HAVE to workout, to study, to get shit done for my own benefit. This is a lifestyle and not a temporary means to an end. Just like I can sacrifice and adapt for work I must have the same dedication (if not more) towards myself. I am the best investment EVER. I have one life and time is a currency I’m always spending without thinking so I have to start being more aware of my life and change my point of view (like eating junk food is an effing punishment to my body NOT a reward : you break out, you feel like shit, you gain weight like crazy, you lack energy and basic necessary nutrients etc.).

  • I’m on my journey although very slowly because I’m taking the time to learn from my past mistakes. Really listening to my body how it reacts to certain things and being grateful for the things it allows me to do. It help a lot to journal pray and talk to God through it all. Though it’s going slow and the result may not come as fast as I want what I seek will find me. Plus I rather be crawling forward than running nowhere.

  • Damn, your words hit right home with me. I am also on my fitness journey and I had an “accident” with my left shoulder. But after I have been to the doctor and a consultant, I now know what I am allowed to train regarding mucles and what exercises I should avoid. I love being in the gym and working out. 💪

  • People dont just “flock to the gym” in those times for shits and giggles. We have in office jobs. Thats the only time we have. Thats really just not a good tip for getting over gym anxiety. As someone who can only go during peak hours in the week. My best tip is to go on weekends to start with for like entering the weights area. And then during the week just find fun classes you can book during peak times

  • i got scared going to the gym and been paying a membership for a year and i went twice. I used to start to think ” people are focused on their own workout” like you said and was getting brave to go, then my co worker said hes one of those gymbros that make fun of people and I didnt end up going. I really want to start going but I am also a bit scared since I do have scoliosis so my hips are messed up so I need to do things carefully, no big steps or jumping

  • Jesus will always love you 🩷 that’s why He was sent on this earth to die for our sins, buried, risen from the dead, then ascended up to heaven. You can put your faith in Him because He will never fail, leave, nor abandon you. To be saved by Him Admit your need. (I am a sinner.) Be willing to turn from your sins (repent) and ask for God’s forgiveness. Believe that Jesus Christ died for you on the cross and rose from the grave up to heaven. Declare with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, through prayer, invite God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit to come in and lead your life (Receive Jesus as Lord and Savior). I hope this helps you a lot if you might be struggling with something or not God will always be there to help you. You are very precious to the Lord✨

  • Always love perusal your articles girlie! 4 years into my fitness journey and so many ups and downs between injuries and chronic illness. Y’all can do it, just believe in yourself and stop comparing your body to others expectations. Also, where are my NY muscle mommies at? I want to build a community of strong as women who love to lift and embrace all elements of health ❤

  • My problem is that I’m motivated to go to the gym. I honestly I think its fun and I LOVE the muscle fatigue feeling….but I dont have a drivers license. I hate making my bf take me to the gym and I hate taking the bus (id have to pay for a bus pass) so my routine has been really inconsistent. My bf wants to go with me and designated thursdays as together gym days, but I wanna go more than that

  • I don’t really care about my body but I have rosacea and one of my biggest triggers is exercise, It’s not the little cute flush, I become so red that I look like I am going to explode. What can I do to avoid people coming up to me and loosing focus? Also most of the times it flares up for the WHOLE month after an intense workout and I can’t seem to find a workout that doesn’t do that…

  • I am always procrastinating about working out like I always sai that ia am going to start but I never do . I don’t go to the gim but I want to start some youtube workout. Love your articles so much ❤ the are a big inspiration. You are like the older sister I never had. Do you have some recommendations of youtube workout ? Alots of love from all of your 🇵🇹fans

  • Thank you so much Girl!!! I have been skipping a BUNCHHH OF DAYS because of my soreness n then I just got use to it like two weeks ago of not doing anything but after hearing the realistic schedule and mentality when you want to skip it reminds me how much I actually WANT this for my own body, selfcare, and health. I enjoy perusal your articles soo much xox

  • I want to start working out for my confidence and my energy. I will build the confidence not only physically but mentally because if I set a goal for myself that I succeed in and make happen I’ll be more confident to succeed in my future goals as well. I noticed how bright and energized I was when I was in my gym era, and I want to get back into that so I can have a productive life. I started getting depressed because I had no other plans on my day but when I was working out, I had something to look forward to and it created further momentum in my day. I highly recommend everyone to take her advice 🙂 I’m ready to make this into a lifestyle rather than an era.

  • Okay I have to compare 2 gyms I will tell you what works for me. In my 20s I went to 24 hour fitness people stare at you alot and I was like I am here to workout. Planet fitness no one is looking at you and they stay so focused on fitness like where have you been. If I made more money I would get a trainer. My music will be kpop all day everyday

  • AAHH I was gonna ask about the gym anxiety! I went to the gym today all alone and I got so much anxiety and almost had a panic attack and when you said ”avoid peak hours” and that made me realise, I went to the gym at the peak hour like damn stupid! I also got another question, ive been bloating a lot.. like actually a lot, ive been drinking water, trying not to eat much lactose, eating fruit, not eating a lot of sugar etc but nothing works? I dont have a lot of money to buy stuff for it so I dont know if you have any other recommendations (and other people if you want to help me it would be nice because im sooooo insecure lately ive cried almost everyday bc of my body)

  • i would love to start going to gym, im working out at home about a year bcs of my anxiety of gym, also i dont have much time, im in high school and arrive home at 4pm every day, so i was thinking about going to the gym before school, like at 6am three times a week, my school starts at 8am, do yall think its a good idea? couse i really dont know how to do that

  • I use to sit in my car and sometimes just go home instead of going inside lol. I was just proud I went even though I didn’t go inside 😂 . Then started going with my dad, then went with a friend but they are both inconsistent and when they didn’t want to go I would not go, so I started to go alone finally.

  • girrrrl I’m perusal this with an orthopedic boot on because I injured my ankle, it’s been almost 3 weeks and I got 3 more weeks to go ugh… I NEVER thought I would miss the gym and just movement in general soo much like I do right now!! But I do🥲… perusal you do those pre workout stretches in the gym I was like aaaa I wish that was me! 😅 I really liked the points you made on mental resilience and comparing the negative feelings you get from procrastination to the annoyance of just going and doing. That’s where I struggle the most! Anyways, lots of love from your Uruguayan follower, as always 💗😘

  • Thank you so much for this article. I started my fitness journey in the beginning of January and never skipped. Im so happy and i became addicted to it, because it makes feel so good, confident, comfortable, and loving myself. Going to the gym was something impossible for me because of my anxiety. Luckily i have my bestie she helped me to beat that fear. Im thankful to have someone brave like her. I really recommend you girls to have gym partners to help u beat that fear, motivate you, and enjoy it together while working out. ❤it’s really fun when you have your partner. We are actually 4 partners now with our husbands.

  • I’m always more likely to subscribe when YouTubers don’t beg for it multiple times in the article… 12 minutes and you mentioned your follower count twice? Let people just enjoy the article if that’s what they wanna do without expecting them to become a fan. Neediness pushes people away, and it really undermined the confidence advice you gave by coming across insecure about it

  • I was so consistent for a while and I felt so much better physically and mentally but apparently I wasn’t eating enough and I put my body into starvation mode and skipped periods 🙃 and since then I’m actually scared to start again because I’m scared I’m not gonna eat enough/properly. ETA; you saying you never regretted a workout and I was thinking back to all my workouts and same honestly, I always went “at least I moved today” if it wasn’t the best but I never regret it 👏👏 that’s a great way to look at it

  • Thank you for the inspiration I also just started my fitness journey not so long ago, but I might have a problem with the camera thing. Yes it’s true that people don’t care (they really don’t) but if you’re going to film I think it’s best to ask people if they’re comfortable appearing in your shot because a girl did that in my first few days and I froze mid workout cause I didn’t feel comfortable appearing in the background and I was still battling anxiety so you can imagine me looking dumb with improper form on top of that 😭😂.

  • first time perusal this article and being introduced to your website, I appreciate this a lot because I’ve been looking for ways to stay consistent in working out without fearing peoples thoughts of me — I’m so excited to plan myself out before I actually start going to the gym again — I appreciate it this article!

  • I started working out Id say since December, and I started working out at home with a fitness mat and Chloe Ting. The thought of going to a gym scared me so so much. But perusal articles of girlies going to the gym made me realize that everyone who goes to the gym really is trying to better themselves, and why be ashamed If you want to as well. I’ve been going to the gym consistently for a month and I will keep it up, and every girlie out there can too 🦋❤️

  • Ive been putting off the gym due to my gym buddy being busy and being nervous about people staring at me if im by myself, since Im pretty big. Yesterday my younger sister flexed at me and there was legit muscle. Something in me changed, I knew I had to get better. She said she wanted to be strong like me. So today, I went to the gym all by myself for the first time, to get actually strong for her. I worked out for a good hour. At first I was really nervous. But LenaLifts is right, no one cared at all. We all were there, working out in silence trying to get better.

  • I love this article. Your why is the key to being disciplined. Spirit and ancestors really helped me get my shit together and stop making excuses and procrastination and never keeping my promises to myself. I had to hit rock bottom and realize I can rebuild and commit to month and month turns into a year and taking my time and being accountable of my actions. You can talk all day but if your showing action you won’t change your life or body. This is a good article. I love that your articles are short. You make me wanna be a YouTuber. It’s all easy it’s just our limiting beliefs. I been working on my treadmill for over 4 months started at 20 minutes and now doing 40 minutes once or twice a day. Eventually going to gym and investing in personal trainer. I’m killing it. My next goal to stop boredom eating for a week and intermittent fast and one week turns into a month and keep going. Dedication is needed to live your best life and best body.

  • I got a years gym membership today, and I have a gym orientation tomorrow morning. I’m 39 and I’ve never been before, and am underweight as I had a long term illness. I want to build strength and be healthier. When I was a child, my family were part of a close knit karate association, so I am hoping to find a sense of community too.

  • It’s hard staying consistent, I bought a gym membership a week after new years and I was doing good for a whole week and then I just stopped going consistently, the last time I went was a month ago.. because it would take so much courage just to go in 😂 but then I would realize each time I would go that it wasn’t that bad and time goes by fast because I would be in there for 1 or 2 hrs, it would be such a relief after each workout, im gonna try to go tonight 🙂

  • Not going to lie, but I look at people at the gym. Not in a why are you here, but I watch their workouts, their grind and the effort they put into their routine. Just smile and carry on. you’d be amazed the quiet bond you build with those who go to the gym the same time as you do. I met a few and back to your workout you go.

  • Thankyou queen for this article I started working out at home because I was always scared and insecure about going to gym but I’d give up and it’s been a couple of months and this article made me realise that I actually don’t have a full plan sometimes I wing it then when I don’t feel like it or that negative mindset comes along I always listen to it but perusal your article has made me realise that I need to get back on it again and stop listening to my negative mindset and start being kinda to myself…I wanna workout maybe yes to get fit but to also help me mentally and physically of course but finally look at myself and not be disgusted but proud of what I have started I’ve always started workouts really well but then 5-6 or even 7 months later I have completely given up but thankyou for this article and I definitely need to start a routine that works with me instead of these unrealistic expectations of myself so thankyou so much

  • Honestly, I’ve been on and off trying to do a fitness journey for a long time.. couple years infact. But this is the best motivational article for gym anxiety and that actually makes me feel better about going to the gym and not getting in shape “correctly” that I’ve seen. So thank you❤ You’ve got a new follower for sure

  • I have been going to the gym since last year but it was inconsistent. Just this year I have been very discipline and made it my goal this year to keep on going 5-6 days and I haven’t stop since the beginning of this year! I love my progress (: I love how the gym makes me feel mentally and physically. I also been still working on what I need to eat but other than that, thank you for being so inspirational and pushing me 😭🫶🏻 it’s been a rough journey with myself ❤️‍🩹

  • Thank you for this! I was about to cancel my gym membership. I had one embarrassing day last week where the treadmill I was on was singing louder than music playing. Me with headphones on didn’t notice until I got off. So embarrassing!! I’m going to schedule 4 days to go to the gym (before work). Focus on myself and my health. I really needed this now🏋‍♀💪❤

  • I started going to the gym last summer then I stopped bc of college and then I started again this summer and haven’t gone this past week. But after this article I feel like I can go again bc it’s FR not just me that has gym anxiety or goes through gym slumps 😭 (lowkey felt like I was losing it LMAO). Thank God we always have a tomorrow because now I got anotha shot at being consistent 😎

  • Been subscribed to you for a good loooong while, and your my #1 fitness motivator/inspiration!! I can soooo relate to you, I’m trying to put a solid end to my inconsistency and TODAY is the day after my weigh in this morning, I said heeell noooo, highest I’ve ever been since a week after my last baby was born….and that was 14 years ago😅 Here now it’s noon thinking I said today will be Day 1, hit that gym, and I find myself back in bed on my phone, after eating a pork wrap wishing I had gone earlier right after coffee this morning…..but soooo glad I did because this article popped up FIRST on my feed and just finished perusal it ALL lol, I’m soooo super grateful for your time to make these mad-motivating articles for people like me, you hit straight home with each one you post. I’m about to make that workout To-Do list and go hit that gym in an hour….Day 1 today for me, for realzz lol😅😊❤✨️

  • Heyy lena! You have no idea how long ive been waiting for someone who uploads these kinds of productivity and workout articles, like i would just search random things like how to be productive and i never found the right article! Then finally i found your and i subscribed immediately just by looking at your thumbnails. I am actually just 11 years old but i still do workouts and all so… you have been soooo helpfulll and i think this huge comment itself shows how gratefull and happy i am.. took me like 20 mins to type this lmao… anyway love uu!!!<33❤❤❤

  • Two articles in a week?Damn girl you are really out here spoiling us!Thank you so muchhhhhhh queeennnn!Much love and I hope life is treating you the best way possible! Ah,I keep telling myself that I would love to workout,but my mind keeps telling me there is no time, with me being in school and working full time it feels like I barely have time.I hope this article motivates me!Thank you Lens!

  • Currently on my fitness journey. I’ve been consistent so far for 3 months. I’ve started and stopped this journey so many times, especially when COVID hit. The short term goal motivation this time was my Birthday. But this time feels different. Two of my aerobic instructors took me around after class one day for a circuit on the weight machines. I’ve ALWAYS wanted to try weights but was always intimidated because I thought I wouldn’t know what I was doing and people would be looking at me. I’m SO thankful they took me around because I haven’t looked back. I continue my circuit training and am even getting the confidence to try new weight machines. I’m seeing not just weight loss but muscle and it looks great. Not to mention it makes me more confident. So now the long term goal is to not lose this amazing feeling physically and mentally. I’ve also been mindful of the content I consume from the media/social media. I follow people and celebs who also seem to be living a healthy lifestyle: Chilli from TLC and Mya are 2 of my fav celebs for motivation. It all has been playing a part. And so have you. Thanks Lena for a a great vid!

  • I wrote to you on Instagram. Today I am looking at how to motivate myself and I want to go to the gym starting tomorrow and slowly work on myself. You are a great inspiration to me and i just love you and wanna say big THANK YOU and I would love it if you would reply to my messages on Instagram love you girl and keep up uplouding articles bc i looove perusal them. and ofc big love for Pika

  • I’ve been a subscribed girl since what I feel was the REAL start of my fitness journey this year. I’m only a few months into being fairly consistent, which feels like a big win. I agree with curating the healthy and realistic media you consume, and that’s how I found you 🙂 I definitely purged out a lot. I was talking to a friend about this like this last night and how when I reflect on 2023 so far, as much as nothing extraordinary has happened, and arguably more bad than good, I’m having a better year in terms of mindset. I’m showing up, minding my own business and staying away from the things that hurt me. I feel much happier and lighter. I’m being more realistic and less harmful to myself and beating myself up less. I’m on a journey and am genuinely excited moreso for the path and delightfully surprised the more I reach certain points of it. Thanks Lena <3

  • My big mind shift was to stop following routines with multiple sets and exercises that just didn’t jive with my body. After studying Mike Mentzer’s weightlifting ideas of 1 set to failure I wondered if I could implement that in a daily full body routine. I started by picking the exercises that I had the most mind/muscle connection with and doing a daily routine where I do one exercise per body part, 1 set per exercise to failure. I’ve noticed a big change in my mindset, I look forward to my 20-25 min workout everyday and I push hard knowing I’ll only have that one set per muscle that day. I don’t track the weight or the reps, just go until I can’t do anymore of that exercise with a weight I decide on the fly. I’ve been doing it for a solid two weeks now, daily, and I haven’t felt burnt out yet and my muscles are starting to feel more dense. I think the big key I’ve been missing for a long time is the failure factor. It seems like an absurd way to work out if you ask the fitness industry, as everyone is always preaching progressive overload and tracking your program, but I finally realized I’m not an athlete or bodybuilder and THIS is the ideal way for me, personally, to train.

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